The Mom Side of Things

Birthday Boy

2010-05-27T22:11:00.001-04:00

Happy Birthday to our little man who was born

Mary 28, 2008!

We love so much!

Our little Hiker

2010-03-14T17:12:00.001-04:00

This morning we all went on a hike. This is Jack’s first hike and he did pretty well. We walked about 3/4 of the way up the mountain. Side note: It took my FIL over an hour to remember where this place was but finally we found it. http://sawneemountain.org/

We had to stop along the way to take some photos.

This one below might be my favorite!

This one is a cute one too.

Off we go again up the mountain.

But eventually his little legs got tired and he hitched a ride on Poppa.

Finally we reached the top. It was beautiful and very cold and windy.

Looking over Cumming and Canton.

And in the end it was worth it. My husband posing at the top of the mountain.

Spring has arrived

2010-03-09T22:06:00.001-05:00

We hope that Spring is here to stay…we went to the park this past weekend. It was mid 60’s and it was just beautiful!

Jack had a play date with Miss Molly and I think we all had fun! Hopefully there will be many more days at the park this year!

Snowfall 2010

2010-02-14T20:09:00.001-05:00

Friday we received about 3 inches of snow. It started around 1pm and continued till 6pm. As soon as we all got home we went ‘side’ with Jack. Jack says ‘side’ for outside. So out we went! We walked all around our apartment, we made snow balls, climbed up hills, and then we fell down the hills.

It was just beautiful! They are saying we might get another inch of snow tonight or into tomorrow morning. We will wait and see. It’s pretty cool to know that GA has snow and more snow then Vancouver!

Love

2010-02-12T13:21:00.003-05:00

Things I love:

thunderstorms

maui

cherry coke zero

sushi

jimmy buffett

my black boots

chocolate milk

disney world

kitties

uga bulldogs

blankets

my boys

a fireplace

smores

nicholas cage

gerber daisy

Struggling to find the voice

2010-02-09T18:13:00.003-05:00

I've been in a rut lately since my friend past. It's like I've lost my voice to blog. Sounds strange right...so I came across these great photo that made me smile.

My cousin, Steph, myself and my brother at my rehearsal dinner. April 2007

Loss of a dear friend

2010-01-13T13:16:00.009-05:00

On Jan. 1st the world lost an amazing sole a dear friend had lost her battle with cancer. In one moment my world stopped.

I had the opportunity to talk with her on the phone a couple weeks before Christmas. I was lucky enough to speak with her as she asked her daughter to have me call her in the hospital. Even though our short conversation gave me no hope of a quick recover I knew she still had her humor and this made me smile if even for a moment.

I wanted to share this letter that I had written about her shortly before the holidays.

A dear family friend of ours was recently diagnosed with the rarest cancer cell, Multiple Myeloma.

We worked together for 4 years. She is a loving, compassionate person who never wants to burden herself on others. Before her diagnosis she was a vibrant woman with lots of life! She loves music, quilting, her cats, drinking wine, eating good food and spending time with her friends and family.

I will never forget the day she went to the doctor. The day before we meet up with her and her daughter for the Dave Matthews Concert! The very next day she went to Grady for her doctor’s appointment, she had been to the doctor before with complaints of stomach pain and hip pain but the doctor’s couldn’t figure it out just yet. Finally they figured out that she has cancer. The cancer cells had attacked much of her body and she is already at the late stage 3 of the cancer progression.

Since her diagnosed in May 2009 she’s had many changes in her life; she decided to quit her job to focus on her health but she has no insurance; she had to move from the home she loved to a smaller place just to afford rent and utilities; her daughter and 4 yr old granddaughter moved from DC to be with her and help her out; she’s on her 2^nd run of chemo and hoping that she can afford or find funding for her Stem Cell Transplant; she’s in lots of physical pain that never stop; and now she has a hard time walking as the cancer lesions have increased and spread to her ankles which she will need a walker or a wheelchair to get around.

She went for about a month with out treatment as the first round gave excellent results. However, since she not only has a rare form of cancer, but the rarest cancer cell with in Multiple Myeloma the levels have come back up rapidly and she is undergoing chemotherapy again. Basically she HAS to have the stem cell transplant. We are working on the government funding for that so hopefully it will come through soon and we can start that process.

Soon after Thanksgiving, she was readmitted to the hospital due to her calcium levels increasing in her brain causing her to hallucinate and have signs of dementia. A few weeks later after additional and extensive chemo treatments we learned that her heart couldn't take the pain any longer.

My friend, a mother, a daughter, a wife, and a sister lost her battle after 6 months of being diagnosed.

She is in heaven pain free. Though she'll never know how much I think about her everyday, you are still with me.

She had given me a quote several years a go as a reminder of who we are and what we do isn't always easy.

"If it wasn't hard everyone would do it. It's hard that makes it Great."

Visit with Santa

2009-12-07T11:41:00.002-05:00

Jack sat with Santa this weekend. We went up to Bass Pro Shop early Saturday morning and was early in line. Jack had plenty of time to walk around the store and find many things he wants for Christmas! He was such a trooper! He didn't cry which I thought he might. The little 15 month old girl in front of us cried so I distracted Jack so he couldn't see her. I think it worked.

As you can see he's really serious and no smiles on Santa's lap. I'm not even sure if he told Santa what he wants for Christmas but I'm sure he will bring him everything he ever wanted!

Happy Holidays!

Jack is 18 months!

2009-12-02T14:46:00.004-05:00

Our little munchkin is 18 months old! Where did all the time go? Oh wait I remember...sleepless nights but priceless moments.

Jack went to the doctor for his check up yesterday and here are his stats:

height: 33 inches (89%) He will be tall!

weight: 24.9 lbs (32%) He will be slender!

He had another eye exam and all looks good. Two shots and out the door! He's become slightly less interested in going to the doctor at his age. As he finally understands that going to the doctor means that he will have to lay down and get check out and get those routine shots! Last week I took him into the doctor because he was sick. He had Croup for the 3rd time this year. However he's all better.

No more doctor appointments until May at his 2 year checkup!

MIA

2009-11-04T14:00:00.004-05:00

Family: Jack, Mom, and Dad

Jack as a Race car Driver on Halloween!

Jack at the Pumpkin Patch! 'SOLD' How cute is he?

Yep that's me! I've been MIA for a couple weeks. We've just been busy!

Here are a couple of photos of our little man taken in October!

A Jack First!

2009-10-16T09:40:00.004-04:00

We took Jack to his first Fair last weekend. The first thing we did was visit the Petting zoo. This was Jack's first time feeding the animals! As you can see he was throwing the food at the goats. But not to worry after throwing the food, the kindly bent over and kissed the goat.

Priceless moments in life are spent with children!

Please make it stop!

2009-09-21T14:57:00.003-04:00

Those of you who are living in the Southeast...be thankfully that you are where you are today.

In Atlanta and the surrrounding areas we will get over 5 inches of rain TODAY. Now granted it's been raining for the last 7 days with some totals up to 20 inches. Note: Atlanta is not close to Seattle or Portland. I can't recall it raining this much in all my life!

I'm at work waiting on my boss to return with a Wet/Dry Vaccuum. Our office is in a old house, ranch, brick, built in the 60's and it has a basement. (ha, ha) Our air cut off around noon, so my boss went into the basement to find about 8 inches of rain! To top it off, there are several other areas of the house/office where rain is coming in. We have the attic, the fireplace, archways into many rooms, the 'garage' as it once was but now it's enclosed. But that too is raining...

My husband called to let me know that water is coming into our apartment through the sliding glass doors. The water has gone about 10 feet into our living room. Great right? After being pregnant and expecting we thought it'd be a great idea to move to the bottom floor rather than the 3rd floor, guess again!

Well' here I sit until my boss returns so we can do what we can do before we leave. At least the phones are quiet.

In serach of a Camera???

2009-09-16T12:08:00.003-04:00

I am in search for a new camera! But I need help!

-What brand?

-What style?

-How big or how small?

What am I taking photos of you ask?

I love taking photos of my family and any vacation.

How skilled am I?

Um I'm not. I'd like to take a photography class but don't i need a camera first?

My current camera is a Kodak digital and rechargable. No doubt it's been a good camera to me but now I want to use it much more and would like to hold many more photos then it does. I think it holds 200.

What about this one?

http://store.kodak.com/store/ekconsus/en_US/pd/productID.145101200

Or this one?

http://www.usa.canon.com/consumer/controller?act=ModelInfoAct&fcategoryid=144&modelid=19211#ModelDetailAct

Please help me! Any suggestions are gladly welcomed!

All things are not created equal!

2009-09-11T15:37:00.001-04:00

Jack at his first pumpkin patch, Oct. 2008. 5 months old

So I've been on Weight Watchers since June and I've lost about 17 lb! I'm really proud of myself for sticking with it and imbracing this thing called exercise! It is true the older you get the more your body doesn't want to move!

With fall right around the door step, I'm excited to be re-introduced to the revised/lighter casseroles, soups and hearty meals all over again. (note: this is not my first time with WW) However I can't tell you how much I disguise Pumpkin anything! I love them for decoration but I don't eat pumkpin filling. pumkin pie, pumkin seeds, or try and subsitute pumpkin filling in my brownies! Yes I know it will lower the point value and I can eat 5 in one sitting but don't you know it changes the flavor?

Um. Gross.

Here's another rant I'll share with you. I've completely fallen in love with Hungry Girl too. Plus WW supports her stuff. I recently bought her cookbook that has many recipes and all under 200 calories. Love it! But...Laughing Cow Cheese sucks! It refuses to melt, it doesn't in no way compare to any cheese i eat, and it's in wedges. What is the deal?

Please leave the pumpkins on the porch!

Jack is 15 months!

2009-09-09T14:35:00.002-04:00

It's hard to believe that my little pumpkin is already 15 months old! How did this happen???

We went to the Pediatrician last week and he had two vaccines plus the flu shot. Other then being a bit grumpy that evening our pumpkin is back to normal.

He's growing like a weed!

He is 31 inches tall; although he wouldn't lay still for the nurse to meausre and he was 30.75 just 3 months ago so I'm sure he's much taller. 46%

He weighs just 23lb and 12 oz. He only gained 1 lb since his 12 month check up! 38% - I guess this means he should weigh more but he's really active so no worries plus he eats very good!

His head cicumference is the same at 19 inches which is remarkable it hasn't gotten bigger over time. 80%

He's absoultely priceless!

It was a big HIT!

2009-09-03T16:11:00.005-04:00

Last night my co-workers and I had a farewell dinner for another collegue of ours! We decided that each of us would cook one course with our friend. So I was in charge of the appetizer!

I found a light salad that would be within my WW points but also looked yummy! I was right it was a huge hit!

Grilled Peaches over Arugula with Goat Cheese and Prosciutto

Yield

6 servings (serving size: about 1 1/3 cups arugula mixture, 3 peach wedges, about 1/3 ounce prosciutto, 1 1/2 teaspoons balsamic syrup, and 1 teaspoon cheese)

Ingredients

1/4 cup balsamic vinegar
2 tablespoons honey
3 peaches, pitted and each cut into 6 wedges
Cooking spray
1 tablespoon extravirgin olive oil
1/8 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
Dash of kosher salt
10 cup trimmed arugula (about 10 ounces)
2 ounces thinly sliced prosciutto, cut into 1/4-inch strips
2 tablespoons crumbled goat cheese

Preparation

1. Bring vinegar to a boil in a small saucepan over medium-high heat. Reduce heat, and simmer until vinegar is reduced to 2 tablespoons (about 2 minutes). Remove from heat; stir in honey. Cool to room temperature.

2. Prepare grill to high heat.

3. Place peach wedges on grill rack coated with cooking spray; grill 30 seconds on each side or until grill marks appear but peaches are still firm. Remove from grill; set aside.

4. Combine oil, pepper, and salt in a large bowl, stirring with a whisk. Add arugula, tossing gently to coat. Arrange arugula mixture on a platter. Top with peach wedges and prosciutto. Drizzle with balsamic syrup; sprinkle with cheese.

Nutritional Information

Calories:: 100 (36% from fat)
Fat:: 4g (sat 1g,mono 2.4g,poly 0.5g)
Protein:: 3.9g
Carbohydrate:: 13.1g
Fiber:: 1.3g
Cholesterol:: 7mg
Iron:: 0.8mg
Sodium:: 183mg
Calcium:: 61mg

Compliments of Cooking Light!

Sick of being sick

2009-08-30T20:51:00.002-04:00

How Ironic that my last post was also about being sick - however that one was about my child and my husband being sick. That night I got home from work, picked through my dinner, and shortly after I had chills and the fever the same one my husband had two nights ago.

Tuesday morning came and I was still having the chills so I called off of work. However that wasn't the end of it. My stomach started to churn, make very loud noises as if it was fighting within its self and then the cramping started. I was in so much pain. When I went to the bathroom it turned out that I too had been stricken with the wrath. I too had diarrhea. There is no nice way to put it. All morning back and forth from my bed. So i didn't waste any time and I called the doctor. Thankfully I was able to see the Nurse Practitioner in one hour.

At the doctors office I went through the normal procedure, check your weight (hmm nice I thought I lost 3 lbs since Monday), check my blood pressure (good), took my temp (98), ask about my symptoms (fever, chills, cramping, diarrhea), and then she listened to my stomach. Oh cool I thought I never get to lay down on the doctors table. She carefully listened with her stethoscope (although you didn't need that my tummy was having war and loud enough for everyone to hear), she moved it around a bit and said WOW it's really busy in there. She then asked for a urine sample. However that was a NO go. Add Dehydration to my list! So then she took some blood. I was told to take it easy, eat bland foods such as toast, potatoes, and Gatorade 2 (less sugar) and drink lots of it. She gave me a prescription to keep the cramping down as it might help the stomach issues. I ended up staying home the next day too. The overnight was pure hell. While lying in bed trying to sleep any time i moved or my husband moved I had to go to the bathroom. I was miserable. I was weak and tired.

I decided to go to work on Friday only because we were having a going away dinner for a collegue of mine. I did speak to the nurse as she called to check on me and ask how I was feeling. I told her things were the same and I didn't feel any better. She spoke with the Nurse Practionier and called in two antibotics for me to start taking. I didn't make it all day and left around 3:30. I went home to pick up my antibotics and rested. The past two days I was lucky if I ate 2 pieces of toast and one other item. However with these antibotics I would have to eat at least twice a day as my medicine needs to be taken with food.

Over the weekend I am still not better, I'm eating a bit more, drinking lots, and resting. So here is the TMI alert - stop reading if you don't want to know!!!
I had to take a stool sample for the doctors office. Not pleasant but have to do it. I shouldn't be still sick! This is miserable. I am miserable. I want to be better and back to normal how hard is that to ask. I've never been this ill before and for this long.

Today I've eaten: scrambled eggs and 1 biscuit, noodles, and cinnamon toast. I can't wait to eat my points again. I haven't counted points in over 10 days. I didn't go to WW this Saturday as it didn't seem right to go in and loosing 13lbs and get a celebration for it. "Hi, I've been sick for 7 days and not eating so that's how I lost all this weight!" Um No that is not good for my body or for my mind. However I did make a deal with myself that when I loose 10 lb that I will reward myself with a hair relaxer...any takers?

A week of sickness

2009-08-25T09:05:00.003-04:00

The past week my household has been sick. It all started with Jack when he had a fever last Sunday and a runny nose. This quickly turned into Croup along with not eating and diarrhea and continued for about 5 days. He seems to be much better with little coughing and still not eating much. I also have been weak, sick to my stomach and tired. Then oddly enough my cycle started 4 days early! Now my husband is feeling the rath. The one person in the family that misses it all! He's had a fever for two evenings and a sick stomach. I told him to stay home and rest but he doesn't listen sometimes.

I can't wait till we are all back to normal. No one likes being sick!

Vote! Vote! Vote!

2009-08-15T21:41:00.001-04:00

Please vote for our son who is in 2nd place of over 4888 photos submitted to the Disney.com ‘Messy Baby Faces’ Contest!

Vote here!

You can vote once every day until August 28th!

Hot Hot Hot

2009-08-09T19:33:00.001-04:00

What do you do when it’s 93 degree in Hot’Lanta? You go where it’s cool!

We all love the new fountain park near our home! It is especially great when we all don’t want to get wet!

Note: These are Crocs! Orange at that but nonetheless his father approves!

I do not LIKE it.

2009-08-05T09:23:00.003-04:00

My husband lost one of his uncle's last week due to cancer. He was diagnosed just 6 months ago and his cancer was so advanced that treatment was not working! My husband and I went went to Tallahassee for his viewing and his funeral. It was truly an emotional two days. Too see all his family gathering to celebrate his life, his wife, his daughter, and two granddaughters was wonderful but yet heartbreaking and he was only 56 years old. We appreciate that we saw him just 4 weeks ago at the family reunion.

After these two days I realized that I don't like attending the viewings. For the person who you are mourning looks nothing like the body they show before you. Why would you want to remember your loved one this way? I think it's much more emotional on the family to see him this way.

In the past 15 months, we've attended 3 viewings and funerals. So I have defiantly have had too much in a short time.

When I was in my early twenties I lived with a roommate and she took me to visit her father at his grave site. This truly freaked me out. I never remembered going to a grave site to visit anyone I knew. I guess I was under the impression that everyone was cremated. So here I am walking through the cemetery trying not to step on anyone. I walk around their would be body as I don't want any harm to follow me home. Talk about superstitious...I do the same when we visit my husbands grandparents at their grave sites too.

I'd like to be remembered as I am today and when I do pass for my family not to have a viewing as I want my organs to go to those who need them and let my ashes be passed on.

Mom’s give a way!

2009-07-31T20:43:00.001-04:00

My mother is having a give a way! Check out her blog to see her own creation of the vintage Christmas Box! She is very talented and she will be having a class in December to show others how to create this great box!

You have to enter tonight!!! So hurry up and go leave her a comment and become a follower! Better late than never and I promise you WON’T be disappointed!

Where have I been...

2009-07-30T10:58:00.003-04:00

I haven't made a post in some time...or so it feels like ages ago. We haven't been on a vacation, we aren't moving, and so the question is where does all my time go?

Lately my husband's been working lots of over time. He typically leaves the house at 7am and gets home around 4 but lately he's been working till 6 or 7 which wouldn't be bad but its more constant. And yes the overtime money is nice but if we can't spend our time together then what's the point. My husband didn't get home till 10pm last night and he was out the door by 5:30am. Today will be another long day for him and I won't see him till 9pm tonight as Thursday are my bowling league night! Granted he's the best and he'd work 3 jobs if he had too but I just miss him.

I'm trying to do my best and be the best friend i can be to a very dear friend of mine who's very sick. I want to be supportive and I want to give her lots of smiles. But it just saddens me every day to know what she is going through for herself and her family. I wish i could do more than just give her my support.

Every day I try and lift my head high and do my best and be the best to everyone I love but I'd love a vacation even if it's a 3 day vacation away from here.

Thank goodness, I have the cutest toddler ever! I am blessed to see his face smile at me and now he gives kisses but beware sometimes he gives you a tongue kiss or the full open mouth kiss. Nonetheless it's perfect to my long day.

Let’s make every vote count!

2009-07-22T20:24:00.001-04:00

Our son was entered into a photo contest via Disney Family!

If you think he’s cute in his photo please vote for him today!!

The contest ends August 28th so we have many more days ahead of us! You can vote every day per 24 hours!

We think he’s pretty cute! What do you think?

Thank you for everyone’s support!

Water Water everywhere!

2009-07-21T16:01:00.002-04:00

Isn't he the cutest? We discovered that our favorite park this weekend opened up their Fountain Water Park! Not only did our little guy love it so did mommy and daddy and in fact we went back on Sunday too!

Vera anyone?

2009-07-13T19:19:00.001-04:00

My friend is celebrating her 100th post! I wish I will be so lucky to get to my 100th post too. The best part is that she’s giving away this great gift! Check this out!!

Vera!!! Baby!!!

Congrats to Kristen and her 100th post!

the cutest messy baby?

2009-07-13T19:15:00.001-04:00

Disney and Walgreen has joined forces to find the cutest messy baby! We know it’s our Jack but does everyone else know? Well not yet! But you will.

Please vote for our baby boy. You can vote once a day in a 24 hour period between now and August 28th!

If we win we get this camera!

Thanks!

Q & A

2009-07-09T09:18:00.003-04:00

1. What is the weather like where you are? currently it is 72 at 9:30 am (ask anyone - I always check weather.com before responding)

2. Who was your first best friend? Susan

3. Who knows you best? my parents and my husband

4. Do you have a temper? I only get a temper when a customer service rep is rude first! Then I have no problem telling them what I think of them.

5. Have you ever flew in an airplane? Yes

6. Have you ever been on a cruise? Yes and I hope to go soon again.

7. Have you ever rode on a train? Yes

8. Where is the fartherest you've been from home? Hawaii or Germany, but it takes longer to get to Hawaii!

9. Do you plan to move in the next 12 months? Yes hopefully into a house!

10. Are your parents still married? Yes they are!

11. Do you have brothers/sisters? One younger brother.

12. Can you swim? Yes.

13. Name one thing you like about yourself. I'm easy going.

14. Name one thing you DO NOT like about yourself. Not able to speak in front of a large crowd.

15. Who is the last person you talked to on the phone? My Dad

16. What time did you wake up today? 6:12 am

17. What is your favorite animal? Cat

18. Where did you go today? Been to my parents to drop off my son and I'm already at work.

19. Do you have kids? Yes, one son.

20. What is the worst sound to hear? A crying baby especially mine.

21. What are you looking forward to this weekend? Looking at a house and going to see a movie!

22. What is your favorite holiday? Thanksgiving

23. What kind of soap do you like best? philosophy

24. What kind of perfume/cologne do you like best? Um I don't know the name of but my best friend gave it to me for my birthday.

25. Who is the last person you kissed today? My little boy when I left for work.

26. Are you happy or sad today? Happy, yes.

27. What was the last movie you saw? We started the Miracle of St. Anna last night - I think that's the title.

28. Have you ever broken a bone? It's amazing really, I'm a klutz and I've managed not to break one bone yet!

29. Have you ever had surgery? Yes

30. Have you ever played sports? Yes, I loved soccer.

31. Did you graduate high school? Yes

32. Can you sing? Yes I sing but i know i'm not good.

33. Can you dance? I try. I took dance lessons once but would like to try again now that i'm married.

34. Can you play an instrument? Currently none.

35. What was your favorite classes in school? History and Classical Music in college.

36. Have you ever been on TV? Yes!

37. Have you ever wrote a book? No

38. What type(s) of music do you like? I listen to everything just ask my husband.

39. What month were you born? December

40. Where do you like to shop most? Target - I always walk out with something!

Serious Jack

2009-07-07T21:07:00.001-04:00

If we learned anything this weekend in Florida at the beach it was that Jack is a very serious little boy. He took his first beach experience and playing with the sand very serious. As you can see he wouldn’t even look up at me to take a good face photo!

Maybe one day he will be an architect or a great sand builder!

Horrible Headaches....

2009-07-02T11:28:00.003-04:00

Off and on I've been experiencing these horrible headaches where it takes everythigng out of me.

Nothing seems to work, advil, excedrin, drinking water, standing on my head, eating and nothing. Any suggestions will be taken all day.

I'm at work so staring at the computer or being on the phone doesn't help either. I probably need a dark and comfy room in my pj's and under the covers...maybe in 10 hours!

Music Idol

2009-06-25T21:49:00.001-04:00

I was on my way to bowling tonight when I heard the first rumor that Michael is gone. I called my father and said he’s dead.

It is sad to know my child won’t grow up to know who Michael Jackson was. He was a legend. He was an Icon.

This is how I will remember you.

Rest in peace.

Three Wonderful Years

2009-06-23T20:50:00.001-04:00

It’s been 3 years to the day that I meant my husband. I still remember the first time I saw him, we decided to meet at a local Mexican Restaurant for a beer, nothing too serious, just a drink. When I pulled up he was standing outside, he had on jeans with a long sleeve black dress shirt, head shaven, glasses, and a huge smile. I knew that as long as he was able to hold a conversation and keep me interested I could be in trouble! We sat down and order our beer, about 20 minutes in I called him out, as he was trying to watch the Braves game around my head that was up on the tv behind me. I still give him hell to this day!

But what can I say, I knew I’d marry this man and I did! My life is perfect, I have a great husband and father to our child, we have a beautiful son, and we have a great little family. I love you honey!

Thank you Firefighters!

2009-06-21T19:57:00.001-04:00

Friday night was suppose to be a relaxing evening at home with the 3 of us. That quickly turned around shortly after I picked up my son at my parents house.

The every day is the same routine, I leave work at 5pm, drive to my parents place, pick up Jack and go home. But this nightly routine would be different. I left my parents place, walked down stairs, opened the car, put Jack in his car seat, I started the car because it was over 95 degrees and I didn’t want my baby to get too hot, and I shut the door. I had that feeling before I even opened my door, yep you guessed it, I locked my baby in the car and locked me out of the car! (the air condition was on) It was a few moments before my father realized the same thing before he came running down the stairs. I called my husband and asked him if he had the spare set of the car keys because well we were going to need them. He was at his parents…about 20 minutes away, now grant you it’s Friday at 5:45 and there is traffic even on the back roads. Jack was fine as long as we entertained him, then he realized he was on the inside strapped in and mommy was on the outside and not coming in. My mother called 911 as we hoped they would be able to get to us quicker then my husband would be. Within 5 – 8 minutes the Firefighters arrived with their gear in hand. It took them less than 2 minutes for them to open up the car door! Finally I had my baby in my arms and I promised him a million times never again!

I’m sure he’s already forgotten of his experience however mommy will never forget!

Sorry no photos either!

Doctors x3

2009-06-15T20:30:00.002-04:00

This weekend started out on a bad foot…my husband had a horrible headache and/or migraine that started on Wednesday and continued till he went to a Walk In Clinic on Friday after work. Luckily he only has a sinus infection!

All last week our son, Jack had been fighting a new tooth coming in or so we thought, yes he got his 5th tooth in but then he hadn’t been eating, then diarrhea, some vomiting, he was taking longer naps, and he wasn’t active. Then he started with a fever here and there then Friday morning he woke up with a rash on his face, neck and chest which quickly spread to his arm, back and bottom. Saturday morning I ended up taking him a Children Walk In Clinic. The doctor said that she suspected he has Roseola.

Isn’t he just precious?

Last night after a long day, all I wanted to do is be with my boys and put Jack to bed. However I started to pick up a few things around the living room and apparently I picked up scissors and didn’t know it and they fell point down onto my toe. Ouch! It bleed and bleed. My husband quickly called my parents to have them come watch Jack so we could go to the hospital. I ended up getting a tenuous shot and a small piece of tape to keep the wound closed. I would have been better off with a band aid as the tape didn’t keep my wound from bleeding!

Needless to say we had a splendid weekend and now we wait for our insurance to pay or not pay our medical bills.

Swimming

2009-06-07T12:54:00.001-04:00

This morning we took Jack swimming a swift plan to also to make him tired so he will take a good nap.

He loves the water! Summer here we come!

12 month Check up

2009-06-02T20:15:00.001-04:00

Jack had his 12 month check up on Friday, May 29th.

He is 30.75 inches tall and he grew 1.75 inches since his last appointment

He weighs 22 lb 12 oz from 20lb 9 oz at 9 months

The circumference of his head is 19 inches from 18.5 inches

He received three shots

The Doc was impressed with our little man as she clearly saw that he is active, walking, chatting, and very lovely.

Next appt is Sept 1st for his 15 month check up.

Wasn’t he adorable?

Camping

2009-06-01T20:29:00.001-04:00

This weekend my husband, I and my in-laws went camping at Fort Mountain State Park in the North Georgia Mountains. We had a PWI – Private Walk In Camp site. Not what any of us were expecting.

This was the hike to our camp site. It was aprox 1/4 mile hike uphill or 442 steps. Did I mention the bathroom was even farther?

Cooler, mattress pad, pillow…check.

After several hikes to our campsite we finally set up camp. This was our tent nestled between the trees.

Resting before another hike (down the trail) I looked up to see a magnificent site that I’d not seen before. How much perfect can the trees glow in this natural light?

Back to camp this is a fort that is at every site if you didn’t have a tent I guess you’d sleep here.

Below is our watering hole that served the purpose of washing our dishes, hands and my hair. A small water well pump under ground that gave us fresh cold water.

As always we take our Self Portrait. When camping it’s best to do the bare minimal. Note: hair back in a pony, no makeup, loose fitting attire. All which worked well.

The serene waterfall

Enjoying our view.

We had a good time needless to say. Perfect weather, perfect company, and glad to be home in our own bed.

Oh, Baby!

2009-05-28T08:48:00.003-04:00

Jack is 1 year old today! Happy Birthday Baby Boy!

We have enjoyed every moment since you've been with us. You've brought us joy and a special love that we didn't have before you arrived. Today you are becoming our little man and tomorrow you will grow up too fast! We both love you so very much so much that you will never really know. To many many more birthdays! Love Mommy and Daddy!

Jack’s big day

2009-05-24T20:31:00.001-04:00

Today we celebrated Jack’s 1st Birthday Party with all of his friends and family. We had a cookout with BBQ sandwiches, potato salad, Cole slaw, chips, soda and cake!

We were all exhausted and happy to finally be home. Jack settled in for his short nap and shortly there after he opened all of his gifts. You would think he graduated or got married because he got so many gifts!!!

See below what he got!

Needless to say he is one very lucky little boy!

Thanks to everyone who made this day a wonderful one for not only Jack but also mommy and daddy!

(More photos to come after I get them from my mother.)

K & K Swap received!

2009-05-18T21:24:00.001-04:00

I was delighted to hear from my husband today that I received a box in the mail. Right away I knew it was from my new best friend Tiffany! We are new blog pin pals thanks to Kristen and her great idea.

So ready to see what I received in my box:

First I received a sweet note from Tiffany along with the essential gardening tools, gloves (can’t get my fingers dirty), a knee pad, Aveeno hand lotion (I love this!), 3 pairs of socks (my husband since I've always been cold nature), and a gift card that will buy me 2 White Mocha Tall Coffee’s –my favorite.

Take a look at them all up close!

Note: My quilt on our bed. It’s it great?

What great stuff Tiffany! Thanks a million!

I must say it was hard to think of stuff only for me. After having a child the most things I buy are for him. So it’s a treat to have stuff for me.

Then again having all these gardening tools will motivate me to actually help my husband although I have been watering the plants on the porch which I assure you will turn into the Amazon and grow up to the 2nd floor. I’ll take photos soon I promise!

Do you ever?

2009-05-18T15:33:00.002-04:00

Do you ever feel that you are left out of the loop??? Anyone, anyone??

I guess if things were meant for me to know they'd inform me, right? It boggles my mind really.

I suppose that some things are left to those who think they know it all. Or those who don't care to know or better yet those who just feel left out.

This would be my mysterious post of the year...as I can't give much more than that. This is my venting platform so enjoy what you can make out of it if anything that is.

Hope everyone is having a delightful day! Here in Atlanta it's a cool 61 degrees. I needed socks today but opted for my flip flops. I will be getting a well needed and deserved pedicure on Wed night since my Aunt is coming in for little man's 1st birthday party! I'm so excited.

My little man

2009-05-14T14:23:00.001-04:00

In just 2weeks from today my little man will be 1 year old! Where did all the time go?

Today was my day off and as luxurious as it sounds we’ve been very busy. My little man graced me with sleeping though the night he went down at 8:30pm and woke up at 6:30am and went back to bed for another hour so can’t complain much on his sleeping. We got up watched few of our cartoons, Mickey Mouse Club, Paz and Peep, and Handy Mandy. Then we ate our breakfast; my little man ate 1/2 banana, 1 waffle and water. We read a few books and he was ready for a nap at 10 am. I quickly took my shower, dried my hair, got dressed and he was still sleeping. I got his diaper bag ready and my stuff all ready so all I’d have to do is change his diaper and leave. My little man woke up at 11:15, I changed his diapers and put on his shorts and t-shirt and out of the door we went. I had to go to Target and to drop my husband’s glasses off then we meet my parents at Panera Bread for lunch. YUM-O!

We went to the park for a little bit and now we are back home playing. Mommy is hoping for 1 more nap.

I finally took a few more pictures of him.

Here I come!

My little man loves to rock his horse!

He thinks he found Cheerios from this morning in that bowl.

Mommy trying a self portrait!

Okay one more try.

Oh well it was fun trying!

Not enough bubbles

2009-05-13T21:22:00.001-04:00

Today during my lunch break, I had a 30 minute massage and it was so aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh relaxing and very well needed! Of course I didn't want to return to work but I had. I decided it was time to try out the new massage therapist at my chiropractor Dr Drew Rubin. He’s simply one of the best natural healers I’ve meet in my life as he always brings me and my body to a better place. Thanks Dr. R! If you are in his area, check him out he’s worth it!

I’ve learned over the years that it is very helpful after a massage to drink plenty of water and take a hot bath to loosen all those bad toxins. So of course I did...although here lies my problem. I didn't have any bubbles for my bath. Yes, I have the body wash, foot scrub, 2 for 1 shampoo/conditioner but wait where are my bubbles. Every lady has got to have her bubbles that is what makes your bath smell wonderful! So this weekend I’ll be looking for more bubbles.

Instead of bubbles I used Epson salt which is good for sore muscles and such. NOTE to self: During the massage, the therapist advised me to take Apple Cider Vinegar capsules to help release the extra water weight that my body retains. After over 3 years of seeing Dr. Rubin I believe strongly in natural healing of the body so here I come Apple Cider Vinegar capsules!

God's Promise

2009-05-13T08:48:00.003-04:00

Last Saturday we spent the latter part of the day with my MIL for her Mother's Day. We went to a movie to see Hugh and later to a good old' home country meal for dinner. On the way to dinner, I was feeling pretty down about my friend with cancer, I was off in never never land and there it was a beautiful Rainbow that looked as if it started in Texas and spread over Georgia. It was huge and the most beautiful thing I saw all day.

My husband pointed out that we hadn't seen a Rainbow since our honeymoon over 2 years ago in Maui. In Maui you are bound to see a Rainbow everyday. But this one was special I know, my MIL said you know what a Rainbow means, right? She said a Rainbow is God's promise. Two simple words made me feel so much better. So now I'm hoping that the promise will come through and just not for my friend but for all the other prayers that I've wished for.

Check out this blog!

2009-05-09T11:13:00.001-04:00

I’m very proud of my boys…they’ve decided to join my in the blogging world.

You can find their blog at Jack of all Sports and yes it’s a great idea.

Go check it out!

Secretary who?

2009-05-08T10:46:00.004-04:00

Last night was the start of our summer bowling league, it's 16 weeks long and the first time I've bowled without my husband. However he suggested that I join to have my one night for myself without my boys. Originally it was going to be me and my two friends from work but then one of my friends was diagonosed with cancer and she won't be bowling. So the two of us went last night not really knowing what to expect. Again without my husband...but as my other friend K said that I'm very social and have nothing to worry about.

So we are sitting in the meeting room waiting for our instruction, divide out teams and hear the league rules! First and for most they need a Secretary to keep up with the weekly monies, call people if they dont' show and so forth...Penny (special events bowling lady) says any volunteers? I swear I heard crickets chirping...going once, going twice, anyone? So since my other friend won't be bowling (as I had thought to nominate her) I volunteered! Seriously how bad can it be? Penny said GREAT and come on up! (Um what, I have to be in front of strangers...I hate that. Please just don't ask me any questions!) Penny then asked for a President and then someone nominated Jason! So there you go!

First order of business divide out teams, my team consists of well me, K, and two boys we picked up who like us were stragglers. Personally I think we have the best team!

Currently there are only 9 teams, us being team #9. Our name you ask, "That's how we Roll!" Thanks K for your nomination! However Penny believes at least 8 more ppl will show up next week. So tba. Since we only have 9 teams we just bowled oursevles to establish our averages. I think I'm pretty consistent since I hadn't bowled before baby which is over 14 months ago with a 99 average! Only room for improvement right?

So needless to stay I'm looking forward to our Thursday bowling nights. I think its just want I need.

I’m Guilty

2009-05-05T20:36:00.001-04:00

Yes it is true…I’m guilty of something! Putting Jack down to sleep is one of the most relaxing things I get to do as a mother. Just imagine, it’s about 8pm just starting to get dark, his classical music is playing, and your son starts to wind down in your arms. He puts his head on your shoulder and wraps his arms around your neck and yawns. I start to rock in our rocking chair which has been in the family for over 37 years, a wedding gift my parents received and I was very happy to have it passed to me. It’s beautiful rhythm is so soothing and it keeps us both calm. Before you know it Jack is a sleep and I’m guilty. Guilty of holding my son too long after he’s been asleep. I promise you this there is simply nothing better!

Oddly I don’t have a photo of Jack sleeping at 11 months as every mother knows that you don’t wake a sleeping baby. This photo was taken when he was maybe 6 days old and asleep in his boppy. Just imagine him walking and about 23 lbs today.

Why?

2009-05-01T21:23:00.001-04:00

I found out today that a dear friend of mine was diagnosed with cancer. What? Really? Excuse me? How can that be? How come the doctor didn’t catch it earlier?

My friend, is a dear friend of mine, and I can’t even fathom what her family is going through. My heart weeps for them. I want to do anything but for now there isn’t much to do. I want her to be okay, in peace, out of pain, and I want her to not worry about everyone else.

She is the rock of her family. She is the responsible one. She is the “oh don’t worry about me” type. She always worries about everyone else except her.

I want to see her, I want to hug her, and I want to tell her that we will do anything for her. I want her to be okay. Is that so hard to ask?

It sucks to know it won’t be like it was. I won’t get to talk to her every morning on our way to work, I won’t get to have lunch with her, and it just won’t be the same. How selfish is that? I guess to have normalcy back is just a small wish for her, now.

To protect my friend and her family, I decided not to go into much detail about her situation, as I know she is a private person and I want to respect that.

I just want her to know we love her.

1 year ago this week…

2009-04-27T20:49:00.001-04:00

One year ago this week I was 1 month till my due date with baby Jack. I had a rough pregnancy, I had morning, day and night sickness consistently up until my 5th month, I got sick twice, I was admitted twice (once for spitting up blood and once because my blood pressure wouldn’t settle) and once my weekly appointments started I was on bed rest here and there. Thankfully my doctor said at 37 weeks said that if I didn’t give birth on my own by my due date which was May 27th that she would induce me within the 3 following days. Luckily my doctor was on call for 2 days and I checked in Tuesday night, May 27th to be induced May 28th. It seemed like the longest day ever!

It is hard to believe that it’s been 11 months since Jack has graced our life. The first few weeks were definitely challenging for me but all worth it in the end.

My little boy is almost one and we are planning his first birthday! It’s been a remarkable year so far and looking forward to many more!

Friday Fun

2009-04-24T15:26:00.001-04:00

Give a ways galore! Here is another one from Sadie!

Go check her out today!

I love Vera!

2009-04-24T08:37:00.001-04:00

Take a Look at Lauren's give-a-way! I love Vera Bradley and have a few pieces which I’d love to add too.

Take a look at her blog by midnight on April 30th!!! Tell her I sent you!

Thankful for the weekend!

2009-04-24T08:02:00.001-04:00

Thank goodness for the weekend, yes it is true, today starts my weekend as I already worked my 4 days this week. But we have lots today so I won’t be resting, relaxing and playing all day with Jack.

I have to clean the house as my best friend in the world is visiting with her daughter this afternoon. So the house has to be cleaned by 3pm.

We are having a garage sale tomorrow morning so I have to price everything.

I have to go to BJ’s to get some formula but hopefully we are at the end of formula. Since he will be 11 months next week we are starting to wean him off his formula to milk!

Last weekend we took Jack to the GA Aquarium and he loved it.

I hope everyone has a great weekend! Till my next free time to blog…

The Perfect Photo

2009-04-14T20:22:00.001-04:00

The perfect photo is hard to find…okay not really! Jack takes great photo’s whether he smiles or not. This photo is of Jack and his grandma, his daddy’s mom on her birthday from this past Saturday. We went to the park before going out to dinner with grandma and poppa. To our surprise, Jack was fast asleep during dinner! Playing at the park is rough!

Give a Way

2009-04-14T20:07:00.001-04:00

My blog friend, Kristen, is having a give a way! Check it out as her gift includes:

- a notebook (need that)
- luggage tags
- bookmarks (started to read again, so need that)
- tissues (baby Jack nose runs a lot, so need that)
- note cards
&
- 10.00 gift card to Hobby Lobby ( I would give this to my mother)
*all color coordinated, of course!

Who wouldn’t want these? I would be honored. Best of Luck!

Easter Baby

2009-04-12T21:02:00.001-04:00

Happy Easter! This is our Easter baby! He had a great day as we hope you did too.

Definitely a cute little boy!

Sugarland Concert

2009-04-12T20:59:00.001-04:00

Friday night we went to see Sugarland at the Gwinnett Arena and we managed to stay dry!

The concert was AWESOME! I never thought I’d have so much fun but we did. Luke Bryan opened for Sugarland and he too did a great job! I knew more songs then I thought I did which also surprised my husband.

Sugarland opened with Love and played over 2 hours! They did two encores…one which included them joining the audience to sing ‘Baby Girl’.

Jennifer has an amazing voice that can go on forever.

Kristian sang along with Jennifer while he played the guitar for her. They have an amazing chemistry as we can all see.

At the end of the concert the stage was dark and we saw these purple balloons fill up and little did we know but Jennifer and Kristian were in the huge balloons. They rolled out into the crowds in the balloons! It was great!!

Kristian did must better then Jennifer, he is on the right. It was pretty unique I must say.

Over all it was a great anniversary week!

Movie Review

2009-04-09T00:34:00.001-04:00

My hubby and I went to see the new Fast & the Furious on Tuesday night after our wonderful anniversary dinner at Little Alley which is a Tapas Bar. It is one of our favorite places to eat at however it’s special as we only dine there 2-3 times a year and it’s right down the road from us.

However let me just tell you now that I LOVE these high intense, fast paced, and simple love story movies. It doesn’t take long for me to be hooked. It also doesn’t hurt that within the first 10 minutes they are in a race for their lives…did I mention Vin Diesel? This is the 4th installment of the move, ‘Tokyo Drift’ actually should have been after this movie as my hubby pointed out.

So if you are a fan of one of the other 3 movies you won’t be disappointed! Run out and see it as it is worth every dollar you spend to watch the movie.

Happy 2nd Anniversary Baby!

2009-04-06T20:39:00.001-04:00

There are not many words to describe how much I’ve enjoyed and cherished my past 3 years with this man! He’s simply the best I could have ever wished for! Without him I would be nothing and I would have nothing. Thank you for all you do for me.

Happy 2nd Anniversary to you!

Where have we been?

2009-04-06T20:35:00.001-04:00

It’s been awhile since I’ve had time to post…last week was just busy or so it seemed. Jack went to bed fairly well and didn’t wake up once last week!

Finally here are some photos that I’ve taken in the last two weeks.

Aaron and I wanted to plant some Herbs, veggies and fruits this year on our patio. While his daddy tended to the plants, Jack had to be on the patio too!

This is one of our plants either a strawberry plant or a grape tomato plant, at this time we don’t remember which is which. Since the weather will be below freezing tonight our two plants are in our laundry room to be a.) safe from our cats (they will eat the plant) and b.) they will be nice and warm till the weather warms up.

This is Jack at 10 months old he is standing more and more and trying to walk. At most he’s taking 3 steps at any given chance he’s had. Still teething so he’s chewing on this tether that we got him a while ago.

He’s pretty fast these days. He loves to chase the camera as you can see.

Jack in his nightly bath. We sing while we wash him. Isn’t he adorable?

We are pretty special parents to have this adorable growing boy! Before our eyes he’s grown from a little baby to a happy, beautiful, and loving boy!

More time on my hands

2009-03-29T09:20:00.001-04:00

This week we were informed that due to our decline in business that both of us (yes, just two of us in the office) will have to take a 20% pay cut and work 4 days a week starting April 6th. How long will this last? Well until we do much better for two consecutive months. I am the optimistic one of the office, so they look to me for my two cents but this one is hard to do. Since we work in the hospitality industry and tourism is down across the country and the world the future looks dim. At first hearing this I was upset and down. I’m busting my butt to find that hidden business but still no luck. I’m reaching outside the box to find what I’m looking for and still nothing. The last few months have been bleak so I’m not surprised of this decision from the owner but it just SUCKS!

So what does that mean for my little family? Aaron will start working 20% harder….maybe even get some OT. Jack will have to eat 20% less. When we go out to eat we’ve vowed to spilt a meal therefore saving 50% on the bill.

On the positive side, I will spend more time with Jack in my pajama’s. We will get to read more and go on walks outside together or go to the playground.

So we can only go forward from here and not to worry we will be just fine, my husband assures it!

1 year of inspiration…

2009-03-21T09:28:00.001-04:00

Check out my mother’s page where you can win her Blog Anniversary Give A Way she made her gift and I can say you will love it! She is very crafty and has many ideas. Ideas which she should try to sell on Etsy!

Unfortunately I didn’t get her craft! I really have to work at it which is hard sometimes. Her things just come to her! She’s amazing and you will love her Give A Way! So please stop by and see her blog!

Surprise at my door

2009-03-18T21:03:00.001-04:00

Tonight when I got home I had a package to my surprise!

I won a February give a way from Kim's Custom Cards! I received ‘thank you’ gift cards and a wristlet! Take a look at her site she has great items for everyone!

Thanks Kim, I love them!

Night time routine

2009-03-16T20:56:00.001-04:00

My favorite part of my evening is spending time with Jack and making him tired so he won’t be up late. Some days like today he only took one 20 minute nap. Which mean two things: first off he will be in bed by 8pm sharp and secondly he will be cranky.

Tonight we got home around 6, I made dinner as Aaron played with Jack by 6:30 dinner is on the table and Jack is finally eating. He only ate lunch today and 3 – 8oz bottles so no breakfast which is not like Jack to miss a meal! He ate like a good boy so no worries there. I played with him after dinner while Aaron cleaned up the kitchen.

Just after 7:15 Jack started to get fussy so I took him in his room to play. I sat him in his crib and this is our new nightly routine.

I turned on his Fisher Price Waterfall and he sat and watched it for a few minutes. Yes, Jack has his own pillow.

Then he starts to interact with the waterfall with his bear in his mouth; it has lights and plays music and their is a monkey, a toucan and a frog that swing back and forth; in case you didn’t know.

Then it starts: up, down, up and down still with the bear in his mouth. (see his little dimple)

Up and…

Back down…

Then his daddy enters the room to play the ‘game’ with him.

Then the bear goes overboard…

Jack thinks its funny when the bear hits the ground. Either Aaron or I pick it up and throw it back in the crib and this ‘game’ continues for 5 – 10 minutes.

When we throw his bear back in or other toys, note the bowling pin in his crib; he laughs into his pillow like a crazy boy. He is too funny!

Then we read him his books before he gets his bottle and before you know it it’s 8pm and he’s wiped out!

Good night Pumpkin! We love you!

Inspiration

2009-03-15T21:43:00.001-04:00

Tonight I logged on to my computer which happens to be my first free moment all weekend. Not to worry I got lots of things done…we went shopping at Super Target (they have the best lunch meat), BJ’s warehouse, children’s consignment shop (bought nothing), kohl’s and I treated my mom and I to a pedicure. Simply divine…finally pretty toes!

So to my surprise, I was reading a friend’s blog and found out that I inspired her current give-a-way! Me, little old me! Gosh I’m honored! All I wanted was to learn more about her and I got what I wanted.

Thanks K, I appreciate it! Check out her blog to see what you can do to WIN her give-a-way!

Where went the time?

2009-03-13T16:01:00.001-04:00

I haven't had much time to blog lately. My work week has come and gone but don't know where it went too. Jack has been sleeping through the night for over a week (knock on wood) so that isn't my excuse. I've been just tired but a 'good' tired. We started walking again since the weather has been beautiful. I've been eating at least two salads a day, taking my vitamins and drinking water like crazy and not to mention going to the bathroom 5 times before I eat lunch. I need my catheter back from when I was in the hospital!

I haven't taken many photos either lately, as my camera rechargable batteries aren't charging, if I had money I'd buy a fancy dancy camera! One day I will.

Weekend plans? Hmmm...I'm having my monthly eye brows waxed, we are taking one of the cars to get a diagonstic test done as it needs its emissions test done next month, we are going to BJ's for formula, grocery store, my husband wants to buy Jack a toy box, and he needs some shorts when the weather returns. So this is a typical weekend, oh wait I almost forgot my pedicure with my mother!

Next week I hope to post more, until then have a great weekend and thanks for being faithful!

9 months and counting

2009-03-05T21:23:00.001-05:00

Jack is 9 months old!

He had his 9 month doctor appointment yesterday and he’s our little spit fire!

Height: 29 inches

Weight: 20.9lb

Growing, growing and growing like a weed. These coming months we are focusing on saying “hi” and “bye”. He’s starting to stand up with not holding on and he’s walking with his walker and with his Great grandma's walker, photos to come! He’s so independent these days it’s amazing.

Jack had his first birthday party at Chuck E. Cheese this past weekend to see his girlfriend turn 1. See my mother's

post for additional photos!

Joys of Jack

2009-03-03T20:36:00.001-05:00

These are a few of my favorite photos of Jack.

Jack Aaron May 28 2008 – his birth

4 days old with Uncle Steven

Charlie looking over Jack already!

4 generations, Jack is 2 months old

July 1st pool party

First veggie, carrots at 5 months old

the uncontrollable drool…6 months

watching Curious George while my parents get ready for work

eating Elmo and enjoying it!

Christmas 2008

2009 Snow Day

2009-03-01T13:11:00.001-05:00

Today is the first sight of snow in the Atlanta area. We live about 20 miles north of the city and around noon the flurries started. The weatherpersons said that we should expect 2- 4 inches. In Atlanta that is a lot! We usually get snow fall once a year, so enjoy the day kids!

Since this is Jack’s first sight of snow, well we had to get all bundled up and go out side for him to see what it’s all about.

What do you think he’s thinking about?

Mama what is this stuff?

Notice my eyes are shut? I wasn’t aware Aaron was ready.

Enjoy the snow fall!

The Bag Tag

2009-02-24T19:37:00.001-05:00

My blog friend Tiff posted her Bag Tag today and I felt as her friend I shall do the same but I warned her…I will have more crap in my bag then her.

This is my everyday bag. I got this as a gift from my Aunt Geri for my 30th birthday! I truly love my Coach purse and haven’t put it down in about 2 years!

But what is in my bag?

Well here it goes: There is my brush with my many hair ties, my Vera Bradley wallet (by the way I have a matching purse but its much smaller), coupons to our favorite breakfast place, 2 monthly calendars as you can see I haven’t moved everything over from my old one so I just carry them both, tampons, matches that my husband put in my purse, keys, cell phone, a lid to jack’s plastic cup, my inhaler, Tylenol and my Ibuprofen, pens one which is my GA pen, Shout wipes, a nail file that they say never gets dull from my MIL, checkbook, gum, sunglasses that we bought last weekend for only $5, Kleenex – every mother must have these, my mirror which is the first gift my husband gave me when we were dating, floss, Gwinnett Gladiator Hockey schedule, Sudafed, chap stick, and my business card holder that I bought in Maui on a vacation!

So yes, Tiff, I think I have more stuff then you! Do I win?

I dare you to show us what’s in your bag?

What is Mardi Gras?

2009-02-24T10:37:00.000-05:00

Photo taken from the balcony at the Royol Sonesta over looking Bourbon Street!

Recently on business trip a colleague and I had visited New Orleans...we asked someone what is Mardi Gras? We knew what it celebrates but wanted to see what others thought!

One said that it is a celebration of drinking and partying! Well yes, some may think that but that is not the real reason behind Mardi Gras!

Facts on Mardi Gras:

1. Also known as Fat Tuesday, the final day of Carnival

2. The begining of Carnival starts on Jan. 6th known as the Twelfth Night.

3. First celebration in the U.S has been dated back to 1699 but not in New Orleans till the 1740's.

4. The first U.S parade started in 1838.

5. The colors of Mardi Gras are purple for justice, green for faith and gold for power.

6. Mardi Gras is always scheduled 47 days preceding Easter.

7. If you get the baby in the King Cake it is said that you are the Queen for the day and you will have good luck in this year! And you will be asked to host next year's King Cake Party!

8. In 1875, Governor Warmoth of Louisiana signs the "Mardi Gras Act" making it a legal holiday in Louisiana, which is still is.

9. By law, float riders must always have a mask on.

10. It is traditional for you to receive doubloons that are throw from the floats but watch out as if you pick them up you are likely to get knocked down by another trying to get it too. These coins were also the first coins minted in America.

Don't forget to eat your King Cake today!

A letter to a friend

2009-02-20T06:23:00.001-05:00

Dear friend,

I don’t know how to express my feelings other than write you this letter. I’m very upset that you haven’t made an effort to meet our child since he was born. Jack is now 9 months old and his parents are very disappointed in you and your family. We have been friends for over 12 years and I expected much more out of you.

You and your husband have two lovely, well-mannered, adorable children that we love and miss dearly. When your oldest was born over 5 years ago, I visited you and him in the hospital and in the ICU, which made me feel so special to your family. Every holiday, birthday or family gathering that I was invited to I showed up. I did this for you. I did this because I love you and our friendship.

When Jack was born and we had thought about whom we’d want our child to grown up with if we weren’t on this earth anymore (or either of our parents); we knew that you and your husband would be that family for him. We knew that he would be loved, raised similar to our understandings and beliefs, and turn out to be a well rounded young man.

Since we live about 45 miles from each other I understood that traveling with two small kids wouldn’t be easy but it shouldn’t be impossible either. A couple of weeks ago we touched based by phone and you apologized for your lack of trying to visit us. I accepted your apology and you had suggested that you want to visit. We set aside two days that would work and after committing I was sure things would work out. However two days prior to that day I received a voicemail saying that you wouldn’t be able to make it yet again. To be honest I was pissed and I didn’t even listen to your entire message, I just deleted it.

At first I was mad, why would you do this? Are we not important to you? Do you think this makes our friendship okay? Would God be okay with your decision?

To be honest I’m not dwelling on the situation anymore between us as I will not wait for you to do what is right. That time has passed. I’m disappointed in you my friend and I am not sure how you can even make this right anymore.

All our friends and family had come to visit us in the hospital, we there for 4 nights, or visit us at home . Do you know how embarrassed we felt when our family would ask if you visited yet? What a horrible feeling.

Again, I wanted you to know how I was feeling about your decisions. I hope no one ever puts you in this position as you have me. I will not contact you, I will not continue to be the one to try and work this out as I’ve done nothing wrong.

Notes to the readers:

*I will not be mailing this letter as my friend as she recently moved and she didn’t share her new address with me and she doesn’t have email.

*I just needed to vent and get this off my shoulders.

Thank you for reading…comments are welcomed!

My Husband

2009-02-15T21:58:00.001-05:00

This blog goes out to my husband. Why you ask? Simply because he is everything I’m not and everything I always wanted. Warm, sincere, humors, loving, supportive, kind, smart and he wanted me. I thank god everyday for him and Jack in my life.

Our story…

We meet on yahoo personals over 2.5 years ago, though I had doubts I’d find anyone worth my time, he surprised me with his deep brown eyes, gorgeous smile and his charm. One date turned into two and then our 3rd date I think I took him out for his 30th birthday. I told him I’d take care of the details if he’d just drive and he agreed. To his surprise, I bought us Braves tickets (he is a huge fan!), all the food, beer and parking. He also meet my brother who is also an avid fan and went to most home games that year. I figured if he didn’t scare him off nothing would. Many dates later he told me that, my birthday gift to him was one of the best non-family gifts he ever received. I said you have to give to get in a relationship. At that date, he later confessed that is when he knew we were a great match.

Our short romance turned into love very quickly but it felt like I knew him for much longer than 6 months before he proposed on my 30th birthday! History was made in just 4 short months when we planned our wedding and wed on April 7, 2007. All the event leading up to that day was memorable and worth every penny spent to see all our friend and family there supporting us.

We spent out honeymoon in Maui at the Westin Ka’anapali Ocean Resort. Did I say FREE? Well, yes it was free compliments of one of my hotel clients. We definitely had the best of time from snorkeling, to hiking the country side, visiting the winery, eating at Longhi's and hiking Haleakala. All while I managed to get bronchitis! But all well worth it.

Five short months later we found out we were expecting. A dear friend of mine who’d been trying for 1 year said to me “don’t wait long as it may take as long as us”. Little did we know we didn’t need time or help. After the ups and downs of the pregnancy our baby boy finally joined us on May 28, 2008.

Jack Aaron was born at 6:24 pm weighing 7lb and 8oz.

We are the lucky one’s. We found each other, he’s my best friend, a great husband, a honorable father and the man I always wanted to find.

Thank you.

Aloha!!

2009-02-12T09:54:00.000-05:00

Aloha friends and family!

If you didn't know already Maui is my all time favorite vacation spot. I've been twice. Once with my family and the second time on my honeymoon! My fiance at the time said, "honey where do you want to go?" Maui, please! And off we went!

It was truly amazing to share that experience with him. Even though I had bronchitis on our trip thanks to the 30 degree weather we had for our rehearsal dinner and our wedding which was outside. Yes, it was cold in Atlanta on April 7th, 2007 but well worth it. We saw snowflakes the night before at our Luau Rehearsal Dinner!

Once you visit you will find your favorite Hawaii products like their Kona coffee that I can drink it black ( i drink my coffee usually with flavored creamers), love the fruits like the papaya or the mango's that you can buy off the side of the street, their is this amazing smelling lotion that I truly love and I should have bought much more of them but didn't, chocolate covered coffee beans, and Hershey's Kisses with Mauna Loa Macadamia Nuts! Yum-O!

Can't wait to go back! Maybe for our 10 year wedding anniversary?

Rivals

2009-02-09T20:43:00.001-05:00

Yes, this is true. My husband love the Florida Gators. This is his only flaw I must say. Many people said our married wouldn’t survive because of this ‘rival’ we speak of. One day a year I can say it’s WAR. It’s all in good fun until my in-laws bought Jack this horrible orange and blue outfit. Seriously who would dress their children in these colors let alone follow this team in the SEC? I don’t get it. Jack doesn’t even look happy here look at that face!

In fact, since growing up in GA I picked the best SEC team in the nation! Bulldog nation that is! Any mother will agree that red and black is much better suited for your children’s clothes especially on game day!

Go DAWGS!

Jack at 8 months and counting...

2009-02-09T13:56:00.000-05:00

Jack is 8 months and counting. He is clapping, crawling, wanting to walk, and he says "dada" and starting to say "mmmmmmmm". I had figured it out! Jack thought I was his "dada". Hmm not sure what my husband thinks of that one. He also has two teeth on the bottom, finally! Cherrios are his new favorite food group but not to worry he loves anything on mommy or daddy's plate. However I tend to share more of my food.

But isn't he so cute on his horse that he got from his grandparents. The horse makes the funniest sounds...do you remember in elementary school and going to computer or lab class. They had this game called "Oregon Trail". The sounds remind of of this game. It makes me laugh every time. (Link to come once I learn how to use Live Writer)

"He's just not that into you"

2009-02-06T10:45:00.000-05:00

If any of you haven't read this book then you are missing out. When I was single , I had trouble figuring out men just like all of my friends. Then my girlfriend, said "here read this". What? I don't need a book to tell me that us female analyze and pick through every word that any guy has ever promised us! But I did.

I found it so funny that I'd peed in my pants and very entertaining. Human nature, men are different then women, we look for 'signs' that he likes us and we give directions by using landmarks, restaurants and street names. If he says "I will call you." We expect you to call! How hard is that? Don't' say that if you don't mean it.

So now the movie is out with a great cast: Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore - have I said enough yet? Ben Affleck, Justin Long and Scarlett Johansson...finally a good GIRL movie.

I have a feeling this movie will be at the top of the box office this weekend. This movie is definitely on my "To Do List" this weekend as I'm going out with a friend.

Some relief in site...

2009-02-03T15:53:00.001-05:00

I've been experiencing these horrible headaches where the slight crying or scream from Jack erks me to where I just want to turn off the lights and go to sleep. But the other day like a lightblub going off I put two and two together that the headache pain is probably from my toothache!

I made an appointment at a new dentist and surprisingly I kinda like them, well so far that is. However the root of my headache (no pun intended) is caused by my moler tooth that chipped away when I was pregnant with Jack. (Note: I did go to a dentist last summer when I was on maternity leave however I didn't appreciate the lack of customer service that I received from their staff and the fact that they were extremely pushy; therefore I only had x rays done and then never went back.) Anyhow so this tooth is not doing so well. The good thing is that they can save it but the bad part is that I have to get a ROOT CANAL next week.

Going to the dentist even for a consulation freaks me out. But everyone on their staff assured me that I'd like Mr. P and I do. We talked about an action plan and I committed with already making an appointment for next week. That is huge in my book. No I don't like doing it during work hours nor do I like being awake during this treatment but it's a step in the right direction. Aaron seemed to be impressed that it won't cost us an arm or a leg.

If you are looking for a new dentist, check out Dr. P at www.alpharettafamilydentistry.com.

Update to follow...

I hate the Dentist!!!

2009-01-26T11:06:00.000-05:00

Yes, it is true! I hate the dentist. It could be the fact that since I was little I remember the dentist pulling out 12 of my baby teeth, wearing braces for 4 years, having mouth surgery more than once and yes they have scarred me in my adult life. I don't like the x-rays they have to do, nor lying back in the chair starring at the ceiling...nope I rather be moving or giving birth!

So it's that time again to look for a new dentist. I went in June after Jack was born because while pregnant two of my fillings chipped off including part of my tooth. However they said they couldn't fix those two teeth until they did the scaling of my teeth (advance cleaning) which would only take two treatments however it would have cost us out of pocket over $600. We had just paid them $400 out of pocket for Aaron's teeth that he had to get fixed.

My task this week is to look for another dentist in our area. I told Aaron that I'm looking for a dentist that can just put me under for a couple hours and I can wake up to good teeth and a pedicure! Wouldn't that be nice!

Things I'm Happy for...

2009-01-22T15:00:00.000-05:00

Lately I've seen several blogs about what everyone is Happy for in life...so I thought it was only fit If I did the same. Some of these things you might not even know about me.

1. I love sushi! You know the real raw stuff! Many of my friends say they like sushi but eventually I learn that they only like the cooked sushi, that is not real sushi!

2. I have 3 cats that I've/we've saved from them having a life on their own i.e feral cats. I couldn't imagine them not being with us. When we get a dog, I'm sure we will only get a dog from the kennel. There are so many pets that are left behind which breaks my heart.

3. My parents...they are truely amazing. No wonder I turned out to be a great person! My parents are amazing, oh wait I already said that and without them in life I'm not sure where I'd be. I'm thankful I've had great role models to look up to.

4. My best friend, Aaron, my husband, my friend, a great father, an over achiever provider, the worrier, the humorous boy, the sports addict and the loving man I get to call my husband. I'm truely blessed -thank you Yahoo personals!

5. I love sports! GA Bulldogs, Atlanta Braves, Gwinnett Gladitors, Atlanta Falcons but no Basketball, please! My husband is a very happy man!

6. I really enjoy my job. We provide training programs to hospitality graduates from oversees to train in US hotels and restaurants within the US on their J-1 visa. I used to work in hotel sales and loved that too. But now my clients are hotels and restaurants throughout the U.S. I get to talk to many clients from Atlanta to Hawaii. I get to talk to the candiates we bring over from Germany, France, India, Turkey, Japan and the Carribean. My job is very rewarding for me and for that I'm blessed and thankful for my job. http://www.hrc-international.com/

7. I'm looking forward to my garden tub when we have a house, that is my #1 priority, funny huh? A woman has got to enjoy her baths!

8. I love to travel and given the opportunity and the funds, I'd go somewhere tomorrow if I could.

9. My friends...moms like me that are truely blessed to have all they ever wanted in life. I thank all my friends for their support through our ups and downs and thank you for our on going friendship. I'm always here for you no matter what!

10. I have this simple wish for my son, that one day he will grow up to be a wonderful man like his father. Simple, supportive, loving, energetic, smart, polite, funny, and he too will make one wonderful woman happy!

Laughing Jack

2009-01-15T12:13:00.000-05:00

The happiest little boy in the world. Motherhood is wonderful joy I've always wanted and now I have it.

Today's the day

2009-01-15T11:36:00.001-05:00

Finally, I've taken a few minutes to myself to start this blog. I've been waiting to do it for quite some time but when do I have time?

Why I wanted to use blogspot...before Jack was born I created his own website with all my pregnancy updates then his photos and his updates. But now we have our own little family and I want to talk about all of us and all that happens in our lives. So one central location.